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What's the worst thing you can say to someone with an eating disorder?

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Friends and family members mean well, but comments intended to show empathy and support can sometimes have just the opposite effect.

Below is a list of some things to keep in mind when approaching a loved one with an eating disorder.

 Avoid talking about food and weight — those are't the real issues!
 Assure them that they are not alone and that you love them, with or without the eating disorder.
 Encourage them to seek help.
 Never try to force them to eat.
 Do not comment on their weight or appearance.
 Do not blame the individual and do not get angry with them.
 Be patient. Recovery takes time.
 Do not make mealtimes a battleground.
 Listen to them. Don't be quick to give opinions and advice.
 Don't take on the role of a therapist.

Adapted from mirror-mirror.org

See also "Do's" and "Don'ts" for Friends and Family